It Was Funny...Until It Wasn't
A Caregiver's Companion for Families Facing Dementia, Parkinson's Disease, Stroke, ALS, Cancer & Other Life-Changing Diagnoses
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A Caregiver's Companion
"A diagnosis may explain what is happening. It should never define who someone is."
It started with little things.
A forgotten appointment.
The same story told twice.
A familiar name that suddenly wouldn't come.
At first, it was easy to laugh.
Then one day...
It wasn't.
Receiving a life-changing diagnosis can leave families feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, and wondering what comes next. Whether you're navigating dementia, Parkinson's disease, stroke, ALS, cancer, or another serious illness, this compassionate caregiver companion was created to help you move forward with confidence, connection, and hope.
Unlike traditional caregiving books that focus primarily on medical information, It Was Funny...Until It Wasn't helps families preserve something just as important-the identity, personality, and life story of the person behind the diagnosis.
Because the best care begins with truly knowing the person.
Inside this Caregiver Companion, you'll find:* Compassionate guidance for navigating the emotional impact of a life-changing diagnosis
* Thought-provoking prompts that help preserve personal stories, family history, traditions, values, and favorite memories
* Practical tools for improving communication with family members, friends, and healthcare professionals
* Conversation guides for discussing difficult topics with spouses, adult children, grandchildren, and loved ones
* Strategies for supporting long-distance family members and building a stronger circle of care
* Resources that help caregivers reduce stress, prevent burnout, and care for themselves while caring for someone else
* Home safety checklists, care planning worksheets, and organizational tools that simplify everyday caregiving
* A comprehensive Care Coordination Center to organize important contacts, medications, appointments, and essential information in one convenient place
* Plenty of space to record the routines, preferences, comforts, and personal details that help every caregiver provide more compassionate, person-centered care
More than a caregiver guide...
More than a journal...
More than a collection of worksheets...
This companion becomes a living resource for your family.
It helps preserve the stories that deserve to be remembered, strengthens communication during difficult seasons, and gives future caregivers a deeper understanding of the remarkable person they are caring for-not simply the diagnosis they are managing.
Whether you're just beginning this journey or have been walking it for years, these pages will help you focus on what matters most: preserving dignity, strengthening relationships, and creating meaningful moments together.
Perfect for:- Family caregivers
- Spouses and partners
- Adult children
- Friends and extended family
- Home caregivers and care teams
- Anyone supporting a loved one through a life-changing diagnosis
Every family's journey is different.
Every diagnosis is different.
But every person deserves to be seen, understood, respected, and remembered for the life they have lived.
Know the person. Not the diagnosis.
Because the person always comes first.
Cindy Gerard
The only thing Cindy had in mind when she started writing her first book was finishing it. The issue of actually selling it came much later. Only after she made that life-altering first sale did she realise that one book would never be enough. Now, over 20 books and numerous awards later, Cindy laughingly admits that she can barely remember life before...well, was there life before writing?
Actually, yes there was, and still is. A professional career woman, Cindy is a trainer for the Iowa Department of Human Services, a position she states is both challenging and rewarding. "Human Services is a front-line, real-life event. Everything about the job is immediate, from serving families in crisis, to assisting staff with difficult situations, to meeting tension-fraught deadlines."
Cindy's career has taught her much about the human condition, its frailties, its strengths, and its spirit. The evocative emotions that pour from the pages of her books are a reflection of some of her work experiences. Her writing celebrates life's richness and trials, offering a wide range of emotions — hope and elation, anger and indecision, laughter and, of course, love. And, according to her readers, her powerful love scenes run the gamut from steamy to tender to lusty to just plain fun.
Cindy's writing has netted her spots on bestseller lists, numerous RT nominations and awards, the Colorado Romance Writers Award of Excellence, a National Reader's Choice Award and two RITA nominations.Between writing and working full time you wouldn't think Cindy would have much time for anything else. And while she does find her work and her writing rewarding, there does have to be more. Cindy has more. Much more. She is happily married to the perfect man. Tom's a cowboy, ladies!
Yes, even Iowa has its share of that saddle-straddling, Wrangler-wearing species who love their horses almost as much as they love their women. As a matter of fact, recently a whole herd of Texans gathered at the Gerard "Ranch" to treat their little ones to real horseback rides. Go figure.
Cindy has a passion for pink depression glass — she always has her eye out for the special piece to add to her collection. Cindy's down time often takes the form of the classic "busman's holiday." She loves to read and most of all, she loves to read at their summer place, a cabin in the woods on Lake Kabetogama in northern Minnesota. Both Tom and Cindy enjoy gardening and have recently expanded their annual beds into a perennial garden. Cindy says she can hardly wait for spring and the promise of all that reawakening and the colourful blooms.
In addition to the horses, the Gerards have two dogs, Ellie and Boomer, who pretty much get anything they want. Tom and Cindy have one son, Kyle, who, after years of keeping them in suspense, found Eileen, the perfect woman.
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