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Joey has always felt different, especially when playing with friends like Adam or sitting with the girls at recess. By age nine, she knows she's not a boy, but telling her family is terrifying. One Shabbat evening, Joey's anxiety builds during the family blessing. Unable to bear being called a boy any longer, she stops the ceremony and shares, "I'm not really a boy." Her parents listen closely and, after a heartfelt conversation, offer unconditional love. They agree to use "she" and "her" for Joey. Though they make mistakes, they do their best, and Joey finally feels seen. At the next Shabbat dinner, she receives the blessing she's always wanted.
Kerry Olitzky
Rabbi Kerry Olitzky led Big Tent Judaism and has taught at Hebrew Union College. A leader in the development of innovative Jewish education, he is the author of nearly one hundred books including Sydney Taylor Award Winner, An Etrog from Across the Sea.
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Samantha Orshan Kahn
Rabbi Samantha Orshan Kahn is an approachable rabbi, mother, and spiritual advisor navigating the complexities of Jewish parenting in today's world. Inspired daily by both her daughters, Rabbi Kahn feels especially connected to her debut picture book, The Right Blessing, as the mother of a transgender girl. She encourages open dialogue and is available to all parents and families who may be in need of support or understanding. She is passionate about community outreach, interfaith inclusivity, and engaging in Tikkun Olam.
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