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This doesn’t mean we never got angry.
But there’s a big difference between owned and disowned anger.
Imagine a 20 foot tall giant yelling at you.
If your anger is AT your child, it’s punishment.
But if you own your anger + your kid knows they're safe, it's not punishment.
A Question I Often Get A...
@FU_joehudson on Twitter
Saying fuck off is a wonderful way to start distancing yourself from it, loving it is a wonderful way to see how it is trying (albeit inefficiently) to help.
So you can decide which approach to take in terms of:
Do you need some distance from it (not identifying as it or believing what it says)
Or Do you need to be gently and living with yourself, which is often the balm that heals self-criticism?
Art of Accomplishment
Joe Hudson
You don’t want to just collect feature requests. You aren’t building the product by committee. But the motivations and constraints behind those requests are critical.
The Mom Test
Rob Fitzpatrick
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