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We become like the people we spend the most time with…so we should choose wisely. And we should choose widely, because life is too short to live lonely or narrowly—even for a Stoic.

Who To Be Friends With?

Ryan Holiday (Daily Stoic)

Before asking someone to do something for you, take 10 seconds to reflect on what *they* want. Put yourself in their shoes. What are their motivations? What are their incentives? What’s important to them right now?

How to get better at influence - by Lenny Rachitsky How to get better at influence

Lenny Rachitsky

**Being kind and considerate** Being nice is a superpower - wield it.

Software Engineering - The Soft Parts

slime molds

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