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Most people who come to us for counseling have foundered in a deal. They thought they were saving the relationship by pretending not to notice something they really needed to pay attention to. They buried it only to have it resurface. For example, we worked with a couple who had been having the same basic argument for years. When they came to us they were on the verge of splitting up. They had struck a classic deal. Both of them carried a load of anger from their abusive childhoods. When this anger surfaced in their relationship, they elected not to inquire into the true source of it.

Conscious Loving

Gay Hendricks and Kathlyn Hendricks

Being enthusiastic is worth 25 IQ points.

Excellent Advice for Living

Kevin Kelly

And only the fallen can rise again.

The Crippled God

Steven Erikson

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